Garbage Truck Rule

One day I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport.  We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his breaks, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches!

The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was really friendly. So I asked, ‘Why did you just do that?     This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!’

This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, ‘The Law of the Garbage Truck.’ He explained that many people are like garbage trucks.

They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger, and full of disappointment.    As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they’ll dump it on you.  Don’t take it personally. Just smile , wave, wish them well, and move on.

Don’t take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets. The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day.

Life’s too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so… ‘Love the people who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don’t.’

Life is ten percent what you make it and ninety percent how you take it!

What a great philosophy!

Words of Wisdom by the Dalai Lama

Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk.

When you lose don’t lose the lesson

Follow the three R’s:

  • …Respect for yourself
  • …Respect for others, and
  • …Responsibility for all your actions

Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck

Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly

Don’t let a little dispute injure a great relationship

When you realise you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it

Spend some time alone every day

Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values

Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer<

Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back, you will be able to enjoy it a second time.

A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life

In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation

Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality

Be gentle with the earth

Once a year go somewhere you’ve never been before

Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other

Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it

Approach love and cooking with reckless abandon.

Smarties are the World

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Just a normal box of smarties, a box filled with candy coated chocolate orbs of heaven.  Would that same box hold the same pleasure if all the chocolate inside was coated in one colour? Would it still be fun?

As a kid I would love separating all the colours and then eating one by one, I’d count how many reds, how many blues, greens, oranges that I had gotten in the box. When they created that extra “large” smartie I would love to search through the whole box till I found that BIG one.  When they brought out a strawberry flavoured colour I would love to find those special ones, hidden inside the candy so that you only knew it was Strawberry once it was inside your mouth. 

Till this day, I love smarties. Eating them slowly, often I nibble of the candy first and then eat the chocolate, messy but fun.  At other times I will pop one in my mouth and crack the candy between my teeth allowing the chocolate to melt and for my taste buds to get sent into heaven.

Truth is I have always likened smarties to humans, to animals, to the earth and the world as a whole.  For me that box of smarties would be so bland and boring if it weren’t for the colour’s it held.  Each different colour in that box make the box, make it interesting, fun and a whole bunch of yums.

Smarties are the World

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All those different colours make the box as it is in this world, all the races make this world what it is, interesting.  If the whole world was just one colour, one race where would the variety be? Where would the interesting differences be?

Finding that strawberry flavoured smartie can be one of the most exciting things.  Tasting something unexpected can open up a whole new realm within the taste bud universe much like finding or coming into contact with a new culture.  Meeting someone different to you, perhaps someone from a different land or a culture different to your own can be both inspiring and fascinating.  If the world was one culture, if everyone had the same traditions, would there be any growth? Would all humanity just stagnate and blend?

When there is a big smartie we get excited because it is something different, it is a shake up and change.  We seek it out and love it, perhaps we leave it for last just to save the pleasure of eating it.  It’s big but we love it.

When you find a broken or chipped smartie in the box, do you discard it or do you still savour it?  For me it adds even more character, there is still such beauty in it, I savour it and no matter what it is a smartie, it is still yummy.  We don’t discriminate when we open that box, we see it as it is, a box of smarties in vibrant colours and variety, all shapes and sizes.

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For me Smarties represent love, they represent truth and the best part is you can arrange them how you want to… straight out of the box, a peace sign, a heart, a car or a ship, the finger or a symbol of rage and anarchy… the choice is always ours. 

It doesn’t matter who you are, what you are, the colour of your skin the land you come from, it doesn’t matter. It doesn’t matter because you are human and you are amazing!

Life is a box of Smarties

… what you do with it is up to you …

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Believe in yourself…

Oh you can be what you want to be 
See what you want to see 
Believe in yourself 
Believe in yourself 

Go where you want to go 
Do what you want to do 
Believe in yourself 
Believe in yourself 

Some folks try to tell you there are things you shouldn’t do 
You’re not strong enough or smart enough at all 
But what seems right to them quite often 
Might be wrong for you 
So be sure you try to climb 
Before you get too scared you fall 

Oh, you can be what you want to be 
Learn what you want to learn 
Believe in yourself 
Believe in yourself 

Try what you need to try 
No one should question why 
Believe in yourself 
Believe in yourself 

Folks may say you’re different 
That you’ve gone and lost your senses 
But the world is yours to walk in 
Go ahead and leap the fences 

And you’ll see 
Believe in yourself 
And the world belongs to you and me

The Helicopter

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Morris and his wife Esther went to the state fair every year, and every year Morris would say, ‘Esther,I’d like to ride in that helicopter.’

Esther always replied, ‘I know Morris, but that helicopter ride is fifty dollars, and fifty dollars is fifty dollars’

One year Esther and Morris went to the fair, and Morris said, ‘Esther, I’m 85 years old. If I don’t ride that helicopter, I might never get another chance.’

To this, Esther replied, ‘Morris that helicopter ride is fifty dollars, and fifty dollars is fifty dollars.’

The pilot overheard the couple and said, ‘Folks I’ll make you a deal. I’ll take the both of you for a ride. If you can stay quiet for the entire ride and don’t say a word I won’t charge you a penny! But if you say one word it’s fifty dollars.’

Morris and Esther agreed and up they went. The pilot did all kinds of fancy manoeuvres, but not a word was heard. He did his daredevil tricks over and over again, but still not a word.

When they landed, the pilot turned to Morris and said, ‘By golly, I did everything I could to get you to yell out, but you didn’t. I’m impressed!’

Morris replied, ‘Well, to tell you the truth, I almost said something when Esther fell out, but you know, fifty dollars is fifty dollars!’

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