Status friends and Gossiping Mothers

Some people are really funny, when they first meet me they are friendly as chocolate buttons on toast, all melted and soft … then they ask me what I do and I respond with the big red glow in the dark word… Nanny. Shock horror run for the hills… their once friendly faces grow non committal, their body language changes to cold and within a … Continue reading Status friends and Gossiping Mothers

Keeping your head above water…

One day we wake up to find ourselves in the water without a lifeboat or buoy, nothing to help us float, we’re stuck with no way towards the land. We slowly start treading the water, at first its easy, our legs keep us going, our arms move slowly in the water.  We stay a float, our heads are in the fresh air and things seem … Continue reading Keeping your head above water…

Weekly Fruit Salad ~ Numero ng labinsiyam

Filipino is the language for the week, nineteen is the number for the week… I refuse to actually believe it has been that long so have reverted to living in denial!  First up huge HUGE (bigger text huge) apologies, I have been slacking but I think it was the proteins or perhaps the Ebola virus attacking the fruit… yip def an Ebola or at the … Continue reading Weekly Fruit Salad ~ Numero ng labinsiyam

If I am quieter it is because I am dancing…

I leave today to go spend a weekend with a friend of mine in the forest of Blouberg (yes the place with four trees).  Tonight is a function that I am not that excited about but it’ll hone my business acumen which is never a bad thing. Tomorrow morning wedding dress shopping with my friend who I have been asked to photograph in December.  Between … Continue reading If I am quieter it is because I am dancing…

Thought of the day on friendship and love..

  Remember you are never alone.  There are always going to be those people who love you… just because of you.  Don’t take to heart those who don’t understand who you really are, or those who seek to dampen your spirit.  Feel the embrace and love of your friends.  Keep your focus.  One step at a time.  You are loved.  Many here call you friend…. Continue reading Thought of the day on friendship and love..